Wear something very basic. Drape a selection of naughty clothes, shoes, and accessories across the bedhead, chair, table...etc. Sit yourself down in a chair close by and put on a blindfold. Ask your lover to undress you (yes, while you are blindfolded) then to 'dress you up' in a new outfit! They will love seeing your heightened senses make you react to their touch and they will LOVE dressing you up in the outfit of THEIR choice.
Ladies, men love to see us move. They love to see us strut. They love to see us sway and gyrate. Essentially, they love to see us dance and move with wild abandon! Even if you've never taken a dance class in your life before and feel you've two left feet, don't let this stop you from having a go at sending your partner a Gift Voucher for a FREE LAP DANCE. Get them involved by requesting they choose the song AND the outfit that you'll perform in. Just seeing you in your costume will get them very hot under the collar, they may not even notice the song playing in the background that you're swaying, strutting and grinding to. Go on, put your favourite high energy song on RIGHT NOW and dance like no one is watching!
Sit your lover down on a comfortable chair or ask them to sit up on the bed. Use a super soft, silk scarf and gently tie it around their head so they cannot see. Take a previously prepared ‘tasting plate’ of gourmet delights, i.e., chocolate, pineapple pieces, strawberries, nougat, olives... etc, and feed them to your partner to indulge their taste buds. Afterward, treat their other ‘buds’ to the teasing touch of various 'Stimulators' (e.g., ice blocks, string of pearls, feather, silk hankerchief, small rolling pin… etc) and stroke, tickle, caress, roll, and trace your partner’s body with them. This will both relax and stimulate them - a fantastic 'state of being' for sex!